James3:6 And the tongue is a fire…
Seldom is the “thing” the problem, but rather the one controlling the “thing”. And the “thing” could be most anything- from a hand tool, to dynamite, to fertilizer, to sex. And from technology, to vehicles, to clotheslines, things are no more than means to an end, an item of value awaiting evidentiary intent of the one holding the “thing”.
Alone, the “thing” lies still, impotent, and powerless. But when one possesses the “thing” and exercises discretionary power of its use, well, it’s then that eyebrows are raised, headlines are made, and lives are changed.
The claw hammer has been the contractor’s tool of choice for centuries. Driving 16d’s into framing lumber has held structures together across the known world- from chicken coops, to 4 room row houses, to country-club mansions. And that same common hammer has been the convenient persuader of many a floor joist cut just a “smidgen too long” (just beat it till it fits)! And what little boy hasn’t mashed his finger building his own tree house or cut his proverbial construction “teeth” on his first puppy’s doghouse! A hammer is a good thing!
And for the last century or so, what a game changer Smith-Douglas fertilizer has been to the farming community. Prior to recent advancements in soil science and plant nutrition, the nutrients needed for quality soil and productive crops were stinking fish heads and last year’s decaying plants. But in exponentially glowing terms, commercial fertilizers have increased drastically both crop yields and the growth rate of pastured livestock. Fertilizer is a good thing!
And what about that beautiful “thing” we call sex! What a gift! Through wisdom and pure genius, God created mankind male and female. And from those genders and within the framework of marriage, the most intimate of human desire provides both indescribable pleasure and the essential propagation of the human race. Sex is a good thing!
Now, a hammer is just a thing, and so is fertilizer, and so is sex. And when serving their creative purpose, humanity is universally bettered by them. But in the hands of angry men that same hammer has broken windows, destroyed paint jobs, and been the tool for death ending tragedies. And consider that the same fertilizer used to better the food supply of every nation on earth, was also used in an explosion to kill 168 people in the Murrah Federal Building in Oklahoma City just a few years ago. And what the Creator sanctioned in providing mankind a means for marital unity and perpetuation of family, that same gift of sexual intercourse has oft become a trade-off or sellable commodity- utterly profaned, loveless, and animal-like. And the broken trusts, broken marriages, and broken lives that rise from the misuse of such a gift will never be accurately measured.
As a participant and observer of the common events of life, the sights, sounds, and sighs of a crushed humanity prove the need for a preached and redemptive gospel. From among the broken there is no balm for the havoc we humans have wreaked upon ourselves.
Make no mistake here, the misuse of things does not automatically make things inherently evil. But watching the tide of human behavior, it seems most everything we possess for our betterment has also been used for our downfall. The power of darkness, or the absence of light, perverts the rightness of creation, abuses the discoveries of science, and douses the sparks of positive ingenuity.
From music that soothes us, to matches that light our campfires, we also hear lyrics that dehumanize our souls and we suffer fires destroying forests and wildlife habitat. And with exciting health remedies found in the wonders of new-found medicines, lie also the excesses of addiction and the ravaging debilitation of the human frame.
But with all the innumerable things we exercise power over there’s no “thing” affecting human life more than that little “thing” lurking between our teeth. Apart from a new birth, the tongue is an unruly tyrant, a tool of offense and avid brewer of conflict. Without accountability and without filter, the tongue is devoid of equanimity and lacks perspective. Yet, though the tongue gets a bad rap, it’s really not the tongue at all. In the finality, that small member of the human body is steered only from the depths of one’s own heart. Fresh water is never found in oceans, and salt water never flows from mountain streams. And from cataloging myriad attempts to corral it, we find no law can govern the tongue, and the best of men are incapable of managing its effects.
But remember that the first words of creation were piercing words of action, words of overcoming, words of faith and light. Those four powerful words, “Let there be light” shook the emptiness of a vacuous nothingness, and the heavens and earth became a tangible realm of divine glory.
Furthermore, as the Word created a universe from utter darkness, so the Word entered creation as Light piercing the spiritual darkness ruling every human heart. Sincere, true, and life-giving, the words flowing from this Man healed sinners and evil spirits fled from His presence. No man ever spoke like this man, for there has never been a man like Him. In Him was life and the life we saw and read of was eternally the light of men.
Only in Christ do we find the true purpose and power of that little “thing” called the tongue. Measured, edifying, and graceful we see the speech of the Master the epitome of conversational effectiveness. Impartial, free of manipulation, and humble we admire the fruit this Man’s words have on mankind. His words shattered the pomp and eloquence of proud men, for theirs were but imitations of the true. But the words He spoke were demonstrated in the Life He lived, and the Father of all glory confirmed His testimony with unimagined power.
Words matter. Every word carries intent. Every word has an origin and destination. Words build, or words tear down. Words encourage, or words cause hearts to fail. Words deescalate tension, or words fuel fear and anxiety. Words bridge continents of misunderstanding, or words frame relational hopelessness. Words break down walls of separation, or words undergird the cause of alienation. Words calm troubled seas, or words declare our powerlessness in dealing with them. Words dissolve fears, or words perpetuate them. Words save us, or words damn us. Words matter.